The Seven Habits

The Seven Habits

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

Habit 1: Be Proactive

"Habit 1 is the key to unlocking all the other habits and that's why it comes first. It says, "I am the captain of my life. I can choose my attitude. I'm responsible for my own happiness or unhappiness. I am in the driver's seat of my destiny, not just a passenger."

Reflection: I really do like this habit because it can really relate to my self because if your a proactive person you will go far and i really do believe in going far because my future is to become a pro soccer player and i know i can i just have to set my mind to it and i know i can become the best and be the best never give up on your dreams.

Habit 2: Begin with end in mind 

"Control your own destiny or someone else will." (Jack Welch) 

Reflection: I really do like this quote so much because it can say so many things about me like how it is and also how its able to change the person how they think. Each day, task, or project with a clear vision of your desired direction and destination, and then continue by flexing your proactive muscles to make things happen. One of the best ways to incorporate Habit 2 into your life is to develop things in life.

Habit 3: Put first Things first

"Organize and execute around priories"

Reflection: I really do like this quote because you can really say so many good things about it like how the things come first then its what you believe i do believe in becoming the best you just have to have the same activated because if you give up then your not just letting your self down your letting your people down so i do believe in becoming the best. You should always trust your self because if you do then your never gonna give up on your dreams and i do believe in dreams i do believe you just gotta make it happen. 

Habit 4: Think Win-Win

"Think win-win or no deal."

Reflection: I really do like this statement because it can really relate to my life I think anything that's creative really takes my mind off whatever it is that I'm going through in my life. If you're going through heartbreak, and you can write a song, it's a wonderful win-win, because it takes your mind off the heartbreak, and you get to vent.Since entering the new century, China and Africa have seized the historic opportunities presented by the deepening of globalization, worked together and helped each other to achieve a win-win outcome.

Habit 5: Seek First to Understand then to be Understood                         "Diagnose before you prescribe."

Reflection: I really do like this statement because it can really relate to me because you should always seek the first to understand the way people act. Ignore or pretend to listen 

Selective listening (scanning for key words of your interest)

Attentive - focus on the words

Empathic - listen to what's being said, and the underlying emotions

Habit 6: Synergize The whole is greater than sum of its parts (1+1=3)

Reflection: I really do like this quote because you can really tell how the way it is cause  is the habit of creative cooperation. It is teamwork, open-mindedness, and the adventure of finding new solutions to old problems. But it doesn't just happen on its own. It's a process, and through that process, people bring all their personal experience and expertise to the table.

Habit 7: Sharpen the saw 

Four dimensions of self-Renewal: Physical, Mental, Spiritual, Social/Emotional 

 Reflection:   The first dimension, physical, is so important because it deals with caring for our own bodies. This dimension really made me realize how vital making healthy decisions for my body can be. For individuals who are attending college, we tend to become very busy and do not find the time to exercise. Although physical activity should be at the top of my daily list of things to do, school and work usually take up most of my time which causes exercise to get pushed to the bottom of the list.


Reflection: The 7 habit thought me so much to respect others to believe in yourself i really do like these habits because it can relate to my life therefore i do like and enjoy learning more habits because it can change people life for just learning the habits. Over millions of people know about the 7 habits and that's really good to know because you should know the 7 habits they can really take to in a good path and to achieve your goals and i thank the 7 habits to coming into my life. 

Three Fundamental Techniques in handling people 

Dale Carnegie 

Technique 1: Don't criticize, condemn or complain.

“If you want to gather honey, don’t kick over the beehive.”

What i believe is that if you dont criticize you'll become a way better person and people would always love being with you i really and strongly agree with myself because you should always be kind to others and show the respect you also wanna be treated therefore i really do believe in that. This quote is so wonderful i really do like this quote because you can really tell what its trying to tell you so i do really like that quote truly.

Technique 2: Give honest and sincere appreciation
"The big secret in dealing with people"

I really do like this quote because its true what its trying to say you should always be true to your self because thts always the right thing to do not trying to act cool and acting cool can really mess you up so i do believe that you should always try and try aging and you will become a better person if you stop doing that. “Men are never convinced of your reasons, of your sincerity, of the seriousness of your sufferings, except by your death. So long as you are alive, your case is doubtful; you have a right only to their skepticism.” 

Technique 3: Arouse in the other person an eager want. 

"He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot,walks a lonely way."

I really do like this quote because it really does talk about how life is and how it is also form i do believe in a arouse person but at times its really hard to find that right person i do like the way i play soccer i have never i mean never given up on what my dream is i If you walk lonely in this world just do the things you love to do and what you love to do is always the thing that gets to you. Action springs out of what we fundamentally desire… and the best piece of advice which can be given to would-be persuaders, whether in business, in the home, in the school, in politics, is: First, arouse in the other person an eager want. He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot walks a lonely way.

Final Reflection: I believe that the one that really got to me was the "Dont criticizer condemn or complain" because its true what its trying to tell you i do believe in becoming the best but if people criticizer you then your gonna lose hope but you shouldn't care because those are the people that dont wanna see you success and if you success your gonna get them mad and that what you wanna go and also achieve your goals like my goals is to become the best in my soccer team im really working hard to do that because i am there number 11 and i have to prove them so thats why i believe that you shouldn't criticizer people because then they can become better then you. 

School Break Days 

Crate a new post in your E-ports

1. Write a post at least 12 sentences describing your Christmas.

A. What i did was place so much soccer with my friends and spent my time with my family

B. The place were i went was goals soccer center ,debs and salt lake and also stay home at times

C.I met some new people when i was playing soccer because that the right thing to do

D. I watch so many movies stars wars,also shows in Netflix like family guy etc

E. I watch so many soccer games like the barca games 

F. I helped a homeless by buying him food and giving him 5$ also 

G. I didn't read any books

H.i did do my idp for chemistry 

I. played soccer like so much with friends and family